In this day and age, are men still expected to pay for everything in a relationship?

It's a modern era and the dating game has changed... so should still men pay for everything?

Perhaps there are some expectations of generosity and old-fashioned chivalry from the males, but have times changed? Women are certainly capable of paying for themselves.

Yet, some say that when men pay there are being gentlemen (but they break their banks), if women pay they are considered 'wimps', if they go dutch and split the bill it's "not a date".

It seems like there is no winning. What do you think?

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The deadline to send us your comments is May 31, 2016.

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