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There you are, lying next to each other, bathing in the afterglow of the craziest, most amazing night you’ve ever had when he pops the question,
“So, what are we?”
Up to this point, everything has gone right – the butterflies in your stomach from the prospect of going out with this guy for the first time washed away by champagne and a meal at an absolutely beautiful restaurant leading up to the giggling, fumbling hands as you stumble into a cab and tumble out and into his bed. It feels perfect and it feels like it’s going somewhere. And yet you can tell from his tone of voice that he’s not dying to hear you say, “What do you mean? Of course we’re together now!”
It’s tough when things are going great to finally realise that the guy isn’t who you thought he was. Since we’re in the mood for throwing cliches around today, here’s another one: It’s always going well until it isn’t. How many times have you found yourself looking at the guy you once thought was perfect and thought to yourself, “How could I have never seen this coming?” But there you are. It happens, and perhaps there might be another article round the corner about how one might look out for guys who aren’t ready to commit.