'I felt like killing myself after finding out the third party was someone I knew: My brother who later passed away'

Even though today (Dec 11) marks an exact three years since his wife cheated on him, Stomper Tam is still dealing with the hurt and pain of her infidelity.

To make matters worse, his wife had had an affair with his younger brother, who later passed away in a car accident in 2013.

Here is Tam's entry for this month's What Say You contest:

"Well... I do not know how to begin but all I can say is that I caught my wife having an affair back in 2012. It was the saddest moment of my life. It's like the whole world came crashing down on me.

"To be honest with you guys, i can still take it when I found out about the affair but what really made me like killing myself was that the guy was someone I knew. Before I got married to her, I knew that they knew each other. Never did I suspect something like this would happen to me.

"Things were very bad after that! I really hate her so much for doing that to me. I'm not saying i'm the best husband in the world but to have an affair with a person I know... that's $&@!.

"Long story short, she's still my wife until now. I had forgiven her because of my four children. I couldn't bear to see my children crying every time we argue. As for her, I just don't know how to love her like I used to. And 2012 was the last time I said 'I love you' to her.

"Today, 11th of December is exactly three years since I caught them red-handed. The pain is still with me. Even when I'm telling you now, it hurts so bad.

"Oh... the guy who had an affair with my wife is no longer in this world. He met with a car accident back in February 2013. He died at the scene. And he is my younger brother.

"I'm not here to win the vouchers. I'm here to ease the pain in my heart that has been with me since 2012. Something that I can't forget or share with someone I know. Thank you."

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